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What is a big red flag in a guy?
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A lot of times, guys don’t take the time to actually read the profile of the girl they want to talk to them. They just swipe right without really knowing anything about her.
This is why, we created a list of 10 things to look out for in a guy. These are the warning signs that he might not be interested in you.
1) He talks about himself too much.
2) He doesn’t answer questions asked to him.
3) He’s always asking about you.
4) He never asks about you.
5) He never calls back.
6) He never texts you back.
7) He sends you messages at weird times.
8) He tells you his ex name.
9) He uses words like “babe” or “baby”.
Is he afraid of commitment?
Big red flags are signs that a man may be afraid of commitment. He may not be ready to commit to a relationship because he doesn’t feel worthy of being loved.
He may fear rejection, and therefore avoid relationships altogether. Or he may simply lack confidence in his ability to attract women.
If you’re interested in dating this type of man, you should consider him a challenge rather than a threat. Challenge yourself to find out whether he’s worth pursuing.
Here are some ways to test his level of commitment:
Does he avoid conflict?
Conflict avoidance is a huge turn off for me. I’m not afraid of confrontation, but I hate arguing. So when I meet a man who avoids conflict, I automatically assume he’s hiding something.
That’s because men tend to be very direct and honest. They’re not afraid to tell women exactly what they think, especially if they feel strongly about it. And since most guys aren’t afraid to speak their minds, they usually won’t hold back when they disagree with you.
If a man doesn’t express his opinions openly, there’s a good chance he feels uncomfortable sharing them. He may be afraid of hurting your feelings, or he may simply be too shy to say what he thinks. Either way, he’s avoiding conflict.
Avoiding conflict isn’t just rude; it’s also bad for relationships. Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, but it’s healthy to resolve disagreements constructively. Avoiding conflict means you’re never going to learn how to solve problems together.
When you find yourself in a disagreement with a man, try to keep things civil. Don’t argue or fight over petty issues. Instead, discuss the problem calmly and respectfully. Then, come up with a solution together.
And remember, if you ever need help resolving a dispute, don’t hesitate to ask for it. Men are often reluctant to seek outside counsel, but we’d rather work through our differences than let them fester.
Is he too sensitive?
If you’re looking at a man who seems overly emotional, consider whether his emotions are genuine or just a facade. Emotional men tend to be very sensitive and often overreact when things go wrong. They may appear to be angry because they feel hurt, sad, frustrated, or disappointed.
They may seem calm and collected because they’ve learned to control their emotions. However, they still need to learn to express themselves appropriately. So if you notice that this man appears to be emotionally unstable, try to help him work through his feelings.
Is he always trying to please others?
If a man constantly tries to please his partner, friends, family, co-workers, bosses, clients, etc., then he may be hiding a deep insecurity. He may not feel comfortable expressing himself because he feels inadequate.
He may be afraid to say no because he doesn’t want to offend anyone. And when he does speak out, he may come across as arrogant or conceited.
This type of person often lacks confidence and self-esteem. They’re insecure and need constant reassurance. This makes them clingy and needy.
They may try too hard to impress everyone around them. They may overcompensate for any perceived shortcomings.
And they may put themselves down at every opportunity.
These traits are common among men who suffer from depression.